Question #32

Would you be angrier to discover that your spouse had an affair or had spent your life savings?

I would so not be okay with either one of those. In fact--I would be down right ticked!! I would have some major butt kickin to do. They are so complete opposites. One is total emotional & the other is more of a physical. I think I would be the angriest with an affair. For me that is unforgivable. Loyalty is so important. Without it, what do you really have? But then again I have seen this happen to people I love with all my heart, & they say you feel different when it really happens to you. It never involves just you & him. There are always other people it would hurt. You have to think about how it would affect everyone. Kids. Parents. Siblings. Extended Family. Jobs. I just don't know how I could ever get over the hurt & betrayal I would feel. Could I ever really forgive?? I don't think so. I think I would always worry & be afraid. A life savings can slowly be re-built. You would never make it what it was, but the hurt would disappear a little faster. I really have a deep love for those that can forgive. I truly look up to you. What a strength that is to be able to do that. Are the Beatles right? All you need is love? What do you think??